Why White Women choose Black Men
Well, let me just say, I was shocked. Not because of what they were saying but at the honesty of the people in this video. You rarely watch TV programmes or talk shows where they are discussing black and white people, without people feeling the need to sugar coat their sentences. So applause for the people on the show.
Basically, they are having a discussion on why white women may choose black men over white men. They didn’t hold back! With one woman saying that white men don’t have nothing going for them! Another set of reasons was that black men have more rhythm (they do, i cant even lie lol), they are better in bed, they have better skin (because they use cocoa butter. I never said this by the way lol), they were physically and mentally stronger and they treat women better. My immediate response to hearing this was, why don’t black women think the same about black men? You rarely hear a black woman talk about a black man in such ways, and to be honest, it is rather sad. They always discuss the negatives of a black man, hardly ever the positives. I know this video is old, but i don’t think the mentality has changed very much to this day and age, do you? These same black women complaining about black men are the same ones complaining when they see them with white women. Well maybe, they feel more appreciated? Ever thought about that? Just an idea…
Also, how do white men feel about white women dating black men? From the guy in the video, he didn’t seem too fussed. But why not? Is he not in the same boat as the black woman? Should he not feel just as annoyed as them?
One black guy said he prefers to date white women because he “finds them a better person, easy going…always up for a laugh” he also said “they don’t have a chip on their shoulder“(part2). Now when i heard that, I’m not sure that i could 100% disagree with him. A LOT (not all) of black women have this attitude I have not noticed in white women. They are so unnecessarily defensive, a bit uptight and quite rude. But, although I agree with him a little bit, it is not fair to say that he prefers to be with someone because they are more “fun”. Are white women toys? If i was a white woman, i would NOT take that as a compliment at all.
One white woman said (which completely RAGED me) that black women don’t like seeing black men with white women because they know that the white woman has much more and education and that they only like to sit about and have children. If i could ever slap up this woman! What kinna ignorant, foolish sentence is that? There are countless of educated black women within power, how dare she suggest that black men prefer white women because of this? Don’t vex my spirit please. Kmt.
My PERSONAL opinion (no one try throw keyboards at me):
White women and black women are very different. Its all nice and well to say we’re all humans etc, but in general, we are two different species. Black women and white women behave so differently, I do feel SOME black women are defensive and more uptight and less easy going than majority of white women. I also feel that SOME black men have noticed this difference in behaviours and picked up on it hence why many prefer being with white women. However, for those black men who say that black women are too hard to deal with etc, your MOTHER is BLACK, your grandmother, sisters and cousins are black, how can you feel this way about your own family and race? I feel these men are WEAK if they cannot deal with black women; that is my own opinion. However, that is no excuse for black women to be unnecessarily difficult and hard to deal with. Chill out! But at the end of the day, it is your OWN personal preference which you are entitled to. This topic will never be resolved if people continue to stay so close minded. Stop judging other people’s way of living (yes, i am being hypocritical right now, but its my blog i can do what i like), it is NONE of your business!
Anyway, try and watch all parts, i thought it was incredibly interesting.
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Misscherry.x
Posted on April 10, 2011, in Popular Culture, Television/movies and tagged black men, black women, interracial relationships, Kilroy, white men, white women. Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.
Well. I can’t lie. A bag of black women are soo rude and have a mad attitude. I’m sure there are white woman like this but tbh in my opinion I dnt think there’s that many.
Personally I feel men whether white or black have pro’s and cons. Its nothing to do with race, its just who they are. But Kmt.. I dnt care for inter racial couples. Cause I’m sure ppl just like who they like. Every1 has their own preferences.
I agree, its your own personal preference, i just hate when some black guys have some ridiculous excuse and degrade black women
Well Miss Cherry, thank you for the interesting video. Now I hope you will allow me to point out the obvious here and while it may be a little unnerving it nonetheless is true. Let us start off with the fact that the set was full of white women with black men (including the audience) which in itself makes it a little biased. Then let us point out the fact that the only white women praising the superiority of the black male were fat or monster looking women. They are notorious for liking black men. Let us end this by pointing out the actual facts that are not meant to be racist: Physically stronger? Isn’t that a little racist in itself? They are not gorillas. Mentally stronger? Shall we look at high school drop out rates? We know very well that the brightest and most decorated minds are mostly white. Better to their women? Over 50% single mothers when the father is black is being ‘good to your woman’? That statistic is sad but true. And better lovers? That’s a matter of opinion…mostly by overweight white women that go on talk shows. Come now Miss Cherry….you and I on a private plane….leaving all this behind…..having dinner in Paris then flying off to Italy where we shall drink wine and make love under the stars. Pick you up at 8?
When I was younger actually living in San Diego I did like rap music growing up and I use to go to the Clubs at night. What I noticed is that thousands of white women would grind at the clubs with black men. i was discriminated by white women telling me that they didnt want to date me because I was white and asked me if I had any black friends. I feel that white women feel that they can go to black men because there is no pressure, no set rules, they know that they are not taking them home to mom and dad unless she gets pregnant etc. I think that when a white male dates a white female the intent is falling in love getting married having children. White girls dont want to fall into this system but when they date black guys well most girls know they are not in for it the for the long run. I looked back and realize what I am attracted to sexually is not exactly what I want to marry. Sure I wouldnt mind having a fling with the pornstar but then when I look in the mirror and say wait this says alot about me, Alot of women may have been hurt by a white guy etc and think I am not going into this again and just go to the club grind with some strange black guy have sex with him and then at the end of the month she is more miserable that she was before, then when she realizes this the big black dick size then isnt her first priority, sure black guys might have a bigger penis than white guys but does this mean that white women want to have sex with black men? Sure some do the the majority of them dont.
Are you trying to say that white women are more likely to go with black men because it is not initially a long term thing?
I don’t think that is fair to say tbh, what are you trying to say about black men then?
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