Bad Boys Or Sweet Boys??

This has been an ongoing debate probably since forever!! Do you like Sweet boys? or a Bad boy?

Well, lets first DEFINE what a sweet boy and a Bad boy is…to me anyway…

Sweet boy: Polite, gives you compliments everyday, opens doors, pulls out the seats, pays for dinners/movies etc, remembers anniversaries and birthdays, dedicates facebook / twitter statuses to you, dedicates love songs to you, loves PDA’s (public displays of affection), calls you everyday, texts you constantly, lets you win every argument, agrees with everything you say, will stop talking to someone if you think they are affecting the relationship, would spend everyday with you instead of going out with his boys, will tell everyone about you and show you off, your mum LOVES him, your friends think he’s good for you, he would do absolutely everything in the world to see you smile.

I think i got everything for them lol…now…

Bad boys: Stubborn, rude, arrogant, Never takes you out, wont text you until you text them, will NEVER call you, will probably be linking other girls while they’re with you, wont even hold your hand in public much less tell anyone that you’re together, you only see him when he has nothing better to do, you have to pay for your half of the meal on those rare occasions when he decides to take you out (and its most likely to be in KFC on the way to his house), he just about remembers how old you are much less when your birthday is, anniversaries don’t exist, he’ll make you cry almost everyday out of frustration, he has no intentions on meeting the family EVER, no one understands why you’re with him including yourself.

This is what us women will do, we will get attracted to the bad boy because we do like the chase. Am i lying? We think hmm, i think i can change this one. So we go to the bad boy, get hurt and say never again, and tarnish all men with the same brush. Fact, a bad boy will always be a bad boy. They have no respect for women, and they probably never will. They are the reason why a lot of women give up on BOYS. After we go through “I Hate Boys” stage. We find someone who is the polar opposite. The Sweet boy. But after a while, the novelty of the romance and sweetness wears off. We start to take advantage of the sweet boy, and will probably end up being a Bad Girl (general rudeness, cheating, use him for everything, not calling, not txting etc).  Am i lying?…

The perfect man is BOTH. and i say man, i don’t say boy. A man, knows how to treat his lady properly, he’s polite, but he’s cheeky. he WILL argue with you, he will disagree, but he will compromise with you. He will take you out, and will pay for you SOMETIMES. No man will want a WOMAN who expects to be treated everyday. Pay for your own damn things!! He might hold your hand, but wont slober your face in public! He will tell people about you, but not show you off to the world. Your relationship will be private, just for you two. He will remember your birthday and important anniversaries; your 3 week anniversary does NOT count lol. He will spend time with you, but he will have time for himself! You both need to lead your own lives, who said that being in a relationship means living ONE life? no stah, u’ll go crazy that way!

Guys, don’t think you have to be a sweet boy. Women love guys with a BACKBONE, we secretly love arguing with you. But don’t think you going to link some next girl will make us jealous and make us want you more, cos we will just leave you! A real man knows how to balance it out, he wont be taken for no mug, but he will not disrespect you in no way.

Ladies, don’t let the Bad Boy ruin your perception of ALL men. They’re NOT all like that. He was just a wasteman, and YOU was too stupid to realise it at the time. And if that sweet boy is a bit too sweet like honey dipped in sugar, then let him he know that its just a bit too much. Too much sweet things will damage your teeth! Don’t hurt him just because you CAN. Its not fair on him.

But thats MY insight, doesn’t mean im 100% correct, more like 95% lol. But what do you think??

MissCherry.x